Reader's choice

  Written by Nayab Blogspot: pareshy.blogspot.com میں نے اپنی دوستوں سے پرفیکشن اور اس سے متعلق ان کے تجربات اور کہانیاں پوچھی کہ ان کو پرفیکشن کی وجہ سے کن کن چیزوں اور لوگوں کی کن کن باتوں کا سامنا کرنا پڑتا ہے اور اس کے بعد ، مجھے ان لوگوں کی طرف سے بہت سارے ردعمل موصول ہوئے جنھیں پرفیکشن کے اس دباؤ کا سامنا ۔ کرنا پڑتا ہے۔ یہاں میں کچھ نکات پر روشنی ڈالنا چاہوں گی  پرفیکشن کی  ثقافت خدا نے نہیں انسانوں نے  بنائی  ہے۔ لہذا ، اس معاملے میں سنجیدہ نہ ہوں۔ اور یہ محسوس نہ کریں کہ آپ نامکمل ہیں۔ آپ جو  ہیں  آپ اسے دوسروں سے بہتر جانتے ہیں۔ تو دوسروں سے اپنے آپ کا موازنہ مت کریں۔ ہر ایک  انسان قیمتی ہے۔ کوئی بھی قیمتی چیزوں اور لوگوں کی قدر نہیں کرتا ۔ مختلف ہونے سے مت ڈریں ، ہر ایک جیسا ہونے سے ڈریں ا حیرت کی بات یہ ہے کہ پرفیکشن نے ہمارے ذہنوں پر بہت منفی اثرات ڈال دیے ہیں۔  پیچیدگی پرفیکشن کا ایک بنیادی مسئلہ ہے۔ مزید برآں ، اس تحقیق سے یہ پتہ چلتا ہے کہ خواتین پرفیکشنیزم یعنی کمال پسند نہیں ہیں ، ان پر دباؤ ڈالا جاتا ہے کہ وہ ہر کام میں پرفیکٹ  ہوں۔ کام کرنے میں پرفیکٹ ھوں۔ پڑھائ میں

  Written by Nayab  Blogspot: Pareshy.blogspot.com I decided to explore this important topic with my friends asking about girls' experiences and stories of perfectionism and after that, I receive many responses from people who face this pressure of perfection. Here I would like to highlight a few points. Perfection culture is made by humans, not by GOD. So, don’t be serious about this matter. And not feel that you are imperfect.  You are perfect and you know it better than others. So don’t compare yourself with others. Everyone is valuable. No one devalues valuable things and peoples.  Don’t be afraid of being different, be afraid of being same as everyone else. Surprisingly, the need for perfection puts a lot of burden on our life. People took perfection as being attractive, body shape, weight, hair color, and many more. Complexity is a basic problem of perfection.  Furthermore, the study reveals that women are not perfectionism, they are pressurized to be perfect.  Some women tol

 Written by Nayab Blog.pareshy.blogspot.com Parenting style is a method or style that parents use in their children's rearing. Parenting style define how parents treat their childern and what's their attitude or behaviour towards childern. There are four common types of parenting style. 1.Authoritarian 2.Authoritative 3.Liberal 4.Unconcerned Authoritarian/Autocratic : Authoritarian parents focus on obedience  Punish over discipline, high demanding but not supportive and have little time for their childern. Authoritarian parents want their children to follow rules. They enforce rules but if child asked about the reason behind rules they are not interested and their focus is on obedience. Strict High expectations Give orders Rejecting Controlling Authoritative/Commanding : Authoritative parents create friendly environment. They are highly supportive and highly demanding, create positive relation among childern. They enforce rules. Authoritative parents are reponsive. they invest

Written by Nayab  Blogspot: pareshy.blogspot.com The way in which person act or react is called behaviour. Normally human's external reaction about environment such as thoughts emotions etc also known as behaviour. Here we talked about children behaviour disorder.. Behaviour disorder of childern effect his mental and physical health. Good behaviour of child indicates his good mental health whereas change in behaviour indicates that he's suffering from mental issues. Mental health of childern directly effects on their perceptions,learning and social development. • Internal behaviour problems: Childern behaviour problems that are affected from internal such as sadness, anxiety, depression, complaining about things, remarriage or divorce of parents, abuse, death of family member, unreasonable expectations. • External behaviour problems: Behaviour problems that are directed from externally and expressed in actions such as anger,overactive and attention problems.

Written by Nayab  Blogspot: pareshy.blogspot.com Kids are like flower. Their mind is like a sand. They have pure hearts and pure souls. They have dreams. They are curious about the things. They love life. Playing with toys with small hands. But these things are not for whole life. Anyone can cheat with them. Brain washing of kids are very common. There pure hearts are envy on little things. There perspective of life changes. And they changed. They groom there personalities. Their minds changes.  Children's are like trees they grow at any place and give their services but environment changes their attitude. Child labour refers to any work or activity that deprives children of their childhood. Child labour also affect health of children's. Everyone has different perspectives of life. Some children's didn't relish their life because of bad circumstances.  Every children have some dreams. But not all dreams are fulfilled it is very bad aspect of life. Child labour is a grea